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到底非誠上面的男生是要找怎樣的對象呢？
大概把很多男生對“心依”女生的選擇看了一下。開始讓我懷疑真正有多少是需要為自己找另外一半的呢？
首先光是25以下的就佔了一半。90後的弟弟們也來湊熱鬧，碰碰運氣來結交同是90後的妹妹們。他們這群90後的3無民族，真的要來settle down嗎？不太可能吧。真是連本科念什麼major都還沒想好呢，已經開始琢磨婚姻問題？！
再來看一下我們姐妹們，發現很多才貌相全的，因為把時間花費在攻讀碩士博士或者是創業，待思想成熟的她們現在開始考慮婚姻問題。費了好大的勁才鼓起勇氣報名，努力把握機會給男生們留言的時候，卻得到不理不睬下場。這些家庭背景和家教都很不錯的女生一直努力的自我增值，把書念好為了將來相夫教子，把工作做好為了將來家庭創造更好的基礎，似乎到最後也沒有得到男生們的多少關注。雖然很多男生在自己的profile上都有寫對象要求。說自己條件好，要門當戶對的，一個事業不錯的女生又嫌人家太強勢（這不強怎麼創業在社會上得到人們的尊重呀？）。說自己學歷高要找一個同等學歷的又嫌人家太敏感（這不叫敏感，這叫聰明細膩！）。說自己家庭背景好要找不錯的，又嫌人家家裏是知識分子，懂的比你多，覺得高攀了。說要找會做飯的，又嫌人家做的是廣東菜你愛吃川菜。說要找愛做運動的，又嫌人家不是划龍舟的。說得再動聽最後還是跑到乳溝最深，臉蛋最像林志玲，身高最像模特兒，藝術照拍得最好的女生上面留言。這不瞎折騰嗎？
當然這也不是絕對。不過我希望既然有些男生們都跟女生留下自己的聯絡方式，那就請你們主動一些回一下話，大方一點，認識一下會死人嗎？搞不好你那位覺得照片上不起眼的根本就沒那麼糟，說不定還跟你最投機呢？如果真的不喜歡，就不要留下聯絡方式了，省得女孩子們對你朝思暮想的。悲劇啊！
浮華的外表不一定是本質的所有。雖然眼緣很重要，但是單平照片否決一切，未免太不成熟了吧。
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发表评论 评论 (15 个评论)
- 回复 crystalline8
To: a116189 你曾经说:
他们没有品位！It‘s their loss...we just need to find one person who can truly understand and appreciate us, I‘m sure he‘s out there somewhere!! :)
haha...i‘m already got rejected by a few men even before they know me. why? i don‘t know...lol..you are adorable too!!
- 回复 a116189
To: crystalline8 你曾经说:
haha...i‘m already got rejected by a few men even before they know me. why? i don‘t know...lol..you are adorable too!!
So true, so honest! Although I‘d be surprised if any guys would ignore your messages, you‘re very pretty!! I‘m sure you‘ll find the right one for you soon!
- 回复 crystalline8
- So true, so honest! Although I‘d be surprised if any guys would ignore your messages, you‘re very pretty!! I‘m sure you‘ll find the right one for you soon!
- 回复 zhangying1977
To: a116189 你曾经说:
很靠谱..
不是所有東西都是絕對的。像你爸爸媽媽這樣的也有，可是不佔多數。而這個年代因為衝動而結婚然後離婚的在大陸比較多。我這也是沖他們來的。而且我這個做姐姐的也是過來人，我也有過你們那個時候的思想，經歷。畢竟我是碰過釘子的人。而且得看看現在是什麼年代，我們不可以盲目的和他們年代單純的愛情比較，如果要比的話，以前大家14/15歲就結婚了，男方還要操辦所有的婚禮，現在呢？男女各一半也是正常的事。如果能夠在學生年代認
- 回复 a116189
To: milogemini 你曾经说:
不是所有東西都是絕對的。像你爸爸媽媽這樣的也有，可是不佔多數。而這個年代因為衝動而結婚然後離婚的在大陸比較多。我這也是沖他們來的。而且我這個做姐姐的也是過來人，我也有過你們那個時候的思想，經歷。畢竟我是碰過釘子的人。而且得看看現在是什麼年代，我們不可以盲目的和他們年代單純的愛情比較，如果要比的話，以前大家14/15歲就結婚了，男方還要操辦所有的婚禮，現在呢？男女各一半也是正常的事。如果能夠在學生年代認識而結婚的那最好，這些我身邊也有不少。一旦出了社會再結交的愛情，就沒有你想象的那麼單純了。而且等你慢慢年紀大了，你思想會變成熟很多。你也更加能了解自己。所謂的知道自己要什麼，並不是說要什麼type的女孩，而是經過和一個人相處後，了解你自己的忍受磨合程度，這樣才是過日子的婚姻。很多戀愛都是因為在現實生活的柴米油鹽中而分開的。
With all respect to what you said, still different people have different backgrounds that may take them on different paths from others but that doesn‘t mean young people don‘t know what they are looking for. For me my parents got married when they were 23 and I‘ve never seen another couple who love, respect and support each other than they do.
- 回复 milogemini
- However, I agree with your opinion about this program...after all, it‘s a show, it‘s a business. I don‘t like being cynical so I still hope to find someone that‘s special for me.
- 回复 milogemini
- With all respect to what you said, still different people have different backgrounds that may take them on different paths from others but that doesn‘t mean young people don‘t know what they are looking for. For me my parents got married when they were 23 and I‘ve never seen another couple who love, respect and support each other than they do.
- 回复 tinababy
To: a116189 你曾经说:
You know...I feel like I‘m socially awkward towards some guys now...don‘t know how to interact with them anymore because it‘s been so long...haha. It‘s very nice to meet a nice, sweet, and genuine lady like you too! I love meeting people that shares the same thoughts!
Hey, I know right?! I‘ve just encountered someone who told me that he doesn‘t want a relationship and he just got out from one, with all respect but this show is supposed designed for people who are looking for their future husband/wife. If that‘s the case, it will be such a waste if time. I was sooooo disappointed when I found out but at least he‘s honest enough to be upfront about it when some o
- 回复 tinababy
To: dalu 你曾经说:
I am glad that you can see it from a female‘s perspective!
Interestingly, as being a guy, I have same feelings as you mentioned there.
- 回复 dalu
To: gimirzz 你曾经说:
yeah. Statistically, girls are doing much better than guys, but still, some girls have that kinda issue.
Do you mean same feelings about the opposite sex? Like the girls don‘t care about interest/hobbies etc either?
- 回复 gimirzz
- I agree with you too!
What is going on?? I actually put in some effort into writing about myself and my experiences (and tried to make it funny) oh well..... i guess photoshopped picture >> everything else
I actually didn‘t know that these guys wanted tall girls? lol And beauty is such a subjective matter that changes with the wind.... why on earth would they select based on that? Even though I‘d like to believe they place inner compatibility above outer looks.... but for two girls with similar background they‘ll pick the one that is better looking.....
Anyways, this is also becoming an online dating-ish site for me too.... but maybe you‘ll find the right one by putting yourself out there ;)
- 回复 gimirzz
To: dalu 你曾经说:
Do you mean same feelings about the opposite sex? Like the girls don‘t care about interest/hobbies etc either?
Interestingly, as being a guy, I have same feelings as you mentioned there.
- 回复 a116189
To: tinababy 你曾经说:
Hey, I know right?! I‘ve just encountered someone who told me that he doesn‘t want a relationship and he just got out from one, with all respect but this show is supposed designed for people who are looking for their future husband/wife. If that‘s the case, it will be such a waste if time. I was sooooo disappointed when I found out but at least he‘s honest enough to be upfront about it when some of the people are flat out lying. Glad I can meet you here though. I guess I will meet some really nice female friends from this show at the end of the day. :-)
Girl...you totally read my mind and said exactly what I would have said! Seriously, I kinda of feel like this whole thing is comparable to a online dating website. Most of the time the fake@$$ photoshopped pictures pretty much determines everything...who cares about interest/hobbies....etc? I feel like over half the people aren‘t even serious about it; they just want to find a trophy girlfriend/bo
- 回复 dalu
To: tinababy 你曾经说:
Interestingly, as being a guy, I have same feelings as you mentioned there.
Girl...you totally read my mind and said exactly what I would have said! Seriously, I kinda of feel like this whole thing is comparable to a online dating website. Most of the time the fake@$$ photoshopped pictures pretty much determines everything...who cares about interest/hobbies....etc? I feel like over half the people aren‘t even serious about it; they just want to find a trophy girlfriend/bo
- 回复 tinababy
- Girl...you totally read my mind and said exactly what I would have said! Seriously, I kinda of feel like this whole thing is comparable to a online dating website. Most of the time the fake@$$ photoshopped pictures pretty much determines everything...who cares about interest/hobbies....etc? I feel like over half the people aren‘t even serious about it; they just want to find a trophy girlfriend/boyfriend to have fun with. For those that are serious...it‘s all just about taking a chance and giving it a shot at finding love, I would not rely on it but at least there is still a chance =)
