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网友就桑兰案致美联社(及转载媒体)公开信定稿及特别致谢

已有 97705 次阅读2011-7-14 20:32 分享到微信

网友就桑兰案致美联社(及转载媒体)公开信定稿已出炉,并已发给美联社。这是一个集体的劳动成果,十分感谢所有筒子们,群策群力,查找资料,提出意见,修改文法,提供媒体联系方式,帮忙收集统计签名等。
艾艾被大家赶鸭子上架做了执笔人,能力有限,英语也是三脚猫,从内容到文本都是大家集体合作的成果。在此特别感谢以下网友:lawandorder先生,毛茂,mingbuping,pollyzixin,GOUP律师,kittyzfong,春夏秋冬,第一缕阳光,xiangrikui,看戏党地下党员,subway,看好戏,以及提出意见及联署的各位筒子们,名单太长(见后),一并感谢大家的热心帮助。
大家在博文和发给我的email里所提出的意见,建议,资料及补充纠正等,艾艾已全部看过并仔细考虑采纳。由于时间原因无法一一回复,在此一并感谢所有筒子们。

定稿已于7月15日发给美联社。感谢188位网友的联署,包括40位实名网友及148位网名网友。(名单统计截止于7月15日美国西部时间晚八时)

博士起草的帖子非常好非常专业,感谢他!前一封信是普通网友的呐喊,而岳博士那篇是专业人士的深刻剖析。这篇是打狗棒,岳博士那篇是夺命剑,呵呵。如果大家决定发岳博士的作为第二封公开信的话,我第一个签名!

注:由于本稿是大家共同努力和讨论的结果,我只是执笔人。而且大家也都签名同意发表。我没有权力为所有人作出撤换稿子的决定。如果您在本稿签名过,但现在认为本稿不妥,不愿署名的,请跟帖告知,或email联系我。

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Dear Sir or Madam,

We are readers of your news article “Lawyer: Deal reached to care for paralyzed gymnast” dated July 12, 2011, written by Mr. Larry Neumeister, Associated Press. Most of us are are from north-america and mainland China, and have been reading the news about Sang Lan’s lawsuit for the past two months.

We write to request your attention to the inaccurate and misleading statements made by the lawyer for the paralyzed gymnast. We also request that you consider publishing a remedial report based on the information stated in the letter, as we believe any reputable and responsible news organization should do.

Below is an incomplete list of misleading or inaccurate statements in the report as well as the facts we discovered to challenge those statements.

1.      "The lawyer, Ming Hai, said he could not divulge details of the deal. Still, he said it will provide up to $10 million in cash and health care over the lifetime of the 30-year-old gymnast, Sang Lan." (underlines added)

What we found: the statement of "(TIG) will provide up to $10 million in cash" is misleading, and "(TIG) will provide health care over the lifetime of Sang Lan" is what she already got in 1998.  In other words, what is agreed in the settlement is no different from what had been stipulated in the original insurance policy in 1998.

Under the current insurance policy established in 1998, Sang Lan already has a coverage up to $10 million dollars, which of course is not in cash.  This information is available at http://www.sinovision.net/blog/ksliu/details/85486.html.  Unless there is a a cheque with a substantial dollar amount issued to Sang Lan (which was denied by TIG Insurance Company), Ming Hai’s statement about the "up to $10 million in cash"is evidently incorrect and obviously made to mislead the readers.

We have contacted TIG Insurance Company to verify Ming Hai's statement. The Director of Litigation Richard Fabian denied that TIG paid a fat cheque to Sang Lan. Apparently $10 million is a big dollar amount. Although both parties didn't disclose the amount of the monetary compensation, what Ming Hai said is contrary to TIG’s stated position. (For our investigatory work please refer to https://www.sinovision.net/blog/aiai/details/85691.html)

Also, Mr Fabian stated that TIG denied all the allegations that Sang Lan made in her complaint, since they didn't do anything wrong, nor did TIG make any apology to Sang LanTIG has been paying for Sang Lan's medical expense claims in the past 13 years, fully in compliance with the insurance policy. Mr Fabian also stated that Sang Lan's insurance policy has not been revised during the settlement.

Furthermore, some documents from TIG dated 1998 (please refer to http://www.sinovision.net/blog/ksliu/details/85486.html) already explained that what she got is a life-long insurance, and the injury-related medical expenses are eligible for claim. This is in agreement to TIG’s original agreement or insurance policy.  

2. "The settlement will provide money to cover Lan's health care in China.  Previously, her health care was paid for only in the United States." (underlines added)

What we found: Sang Lan's health care has been paid by three parties: TIG, the national health insurance in China and her employer in China, while most of the Chinese people only have coverage from the national health insurance.

First, as Mr Fabian stated, TIG has been paying her for her health care in compliance with her insurance policy. And that includes her eligible medical expenses in China.  Please refer to the explanation to the insurance policy (http://www.sinovision.net/blog/ksliu/details/85486.html)  

Second, Sang Lan herself have stated a few times (both in the past and recently), that she has medical expense coverage by the national health insurance in China according to the health plan's policy.

Third, again, Sang Lan stated before that her rehabilitation expenses (which is not an eligible expense for the above-mentioned health insurance in China) have been paid by her employer in China.

For Sang Lan's own statements about her medical expense coverage in China, please refer to her own blog: http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_47420b930100cj4p.html

3. "He said she was staying ... for another month before returning to Beijing, where she will live with her boyfriend and continue to earn about $230 a month at speaking engagements and other public functions." (underlines added)

What we found: the above statement about her income in China is incorrect, and is contrary to what Sang Lan and her boyfriend have been saying in the past. Sang Lan has been living a very good life in China.  She is much wealthier than most of the Chinese people, and her monthly income is around $4,500 (in USD), which is much more than the $230 Ming Hai claimed.

According to their statements before (one example would be an interview conducted by a Chinese media; please refer to http://sports.cn.yahoo.com/10-08-/324/2bpa1.html ), following is a list of facts about Sang Lan's financial situation:
- She owns two real estate properties in China, both fully paid. And one of them is in Beijing, one of the cities with the highest real estate price in the world.

- In 1998, She was paid $50,000 (in USD) by TIG Insurance Company.  Other than that, she got another $50,000 (in USD) from General Administration of Sports of China.

- She has a good job, and her current monthly employment income is about $4,500 (in USD), which translates to an annual salary of $54,000 (in USD).  Please note that the average income for  people living in Beijing is about $2,700.

- There was a trust fund set up in 1998, with Sang Lan being the beneficiary. The fund raised $170,000 USD through donations in 1998. From 1998 to 2008, this fund had provided Sang Lan a monthly support in the amount of $500 USD, which translates to $6,000 USD a year. And in 2008, the trustees provided all the remaining fund (over $140,000 USD) to Sang Lan.

- She owns a Van.

- She hires a live-in home personal care attendant who gets paid $540 a month (she also accompanied Sang Lan to US this time).

On another note, according to Ming Hai's blog post, Sang Lan rented a single house with a swimming pool for her temporary place in New York, and paid $4,000 for the two-month stay.


4. ""Thirteen years ago she had a tragic fall that almost killed her,"
Hai said. "She got her life back again. The American people gave her a second life. She'll always remember that in her mind. She loves this country. She loves whatever this country has done for her."" (underlines added)

This is the most important part, and this is why we wrote to you. “We are not what we say; we are what we do.”  Ming Hai stated that Sang Lan thinks that the American people gave her a second life and she'll always remember that in her mind. But what did she do to American people?

Here’s what she did to American people (please refer to her complaint, http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_857060240100siii.html):

- She sued US Gymnastic Federation, which gave her help after her fall in 1998. (the Gymnastic Federation was dismissed now)
- She sued the insurance companies, which have been paying for her medical expenses in 1998 and all the years until today. (the insurance companies were dismissed now)
- She sued an Chinese-American family (
Kao Sung Liu, Gina Hiu-Hung Liu and their son Winston Sie).

And here're some facts about the Chinese-American family:
-Who are they?  They are the family that voluntarily took care of Sang
Lan (who they didn't know at all) for 10 months after her accident in 1998. Although Sang Lan received generous donation and had funds to use for her home care expenses, the family decided to bring her into their own home and provided the most meticulous care, all by themselves, all for free, in order to save the funds for her future living. In fact, they themselves were the biggest donor of the above-mentioned trust fund for Sang Lan.

- What did the American family (the Liu family) do? They can probably write a book about all the effort and help they offered to Sang Lan during that 10 months. Long story short, from a third party's perspective, they didn't do anything obviously wrong. And most importantly, Sang Lan had been expressing her gratitude numerous times towards that American family in the past 13 years until she sued them this year.  And in 2008 she even came to US and specifically visited Liu family to thank them.

-What did Sang Lan say about the Liu family?  She has written several articles with deep gratitude to the Liu family.  In one of the articles she wrote, “At that critical point in 1998, aunt Hiu-hung treated me like her own daughter.  Like a mother cares for her child, she helped me in getting through that difficult time.”  (please refer to her own blog: http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_47420b93010003f1.html)  

- And what has Sang Lan done for this family who took care of her for 10 months after the accident? A billion dollars law suit!

"Don't bite the hands that feed you." Sang Lan stated that she always remembers the American people who helped her. Based on the above things she did, does she really think so? Or suing the American people who helped her is her special way of remembering them in her mind & thanking them for their help?

All of the facts we stated in this note are solid and backed by evidence. And should you have any questions, or need more information, we are more than happy to assist you.  We understand that due to the language barrier, not all of the relevant information flows smoothly to the US media, and we will do what we can to let people know the true story.

We urge you to seriously consider our request that you publish a remedial report based on the information we have provided in this letter.

We thank you for your attention on this matter. If you have any further question, please feel free to contact us.  We can be reached at aiai.young@gmail.com. We look forward to your response.

Sincerely,

Aiai Young, on behalf of (注:为隐私故,实名签名筒子们的姓名在此略去):

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回复 海明律师的镜像博客 2011-7-15 04:06
To: 当空彩虹 你曾经说:
我签名了,怎么没有我呢
你去一下kittyzfong的那个帖子吧。。
可能数人数的时候数漏了。。
去那个帖子报名吧。。
回复 包子打狗 2011-7-15 04:02
签名找不找百度贴吧的网友的?
回复 当空彩虹 2011-7-15 03:58
我签名了,怎么没有我呢
回复 当空彩虹 2011-7-15 03:56
我签名了,为啥没有我呢。。。。。
回复 胡了 2011-7-15 03:46
我觉得发文章的同时也可表示愿意接受美联社记者(Larry Neumeister)或别的记者的当面采访.并将向他们提供更多的信息.总之是希望他们采访更多的了解这个案子情况的华人.
回复 海明律师的镜像博客 2011-7-15 03:40
To: 女猫晒晒 你曾经说:
没。。。只去艾艾那里签名了。。
弄个了镜像博客。。。
不给胖胖增加点击量了。。。。
回复 女猫晒晒 2011-7-15 03:38
To: 海明律师的镜像博客 你曾经说:
胖胖他们玩的过火了。。。。。。。

话说。。你来镜像博客报道了没??

没。。。只去艾艾那里签名了。。
回复 海明律师的镜像博客 2011-7-15 03:33
To: 女猫晒晒 你曾经说:
嗯,因为姐真的怒了,药家鑫都没这么扯的
胖胖他们玩的过火了。。。。。。。

话说。。你来镜像博客报道了没??
回复 女猫晒晒 2011-7-15 03:31
To: 海明律师的镜像博客 你曾经说:
大家都好努力的找啊。。。。。
嗯,因为姐真的怒了,药家鑫都没这么扯的
回复 海明律师的镜像博客 2011-7-15 03:29
To: 女猫晒晒 你曾经说:
桑兰官方博客,文章“妈妈,过节了,你好吗?”(2007-05-13 22:37:39),节选:“ 而在这里我也不能忘记谢阿姨,从受伤以来对我的照顾、对我的呵护。自从我在美国重生,你们为我操劳,为我重生而搞了“新”的生日派对,我那时候就已经被感动。虽然,您不是我的亲生母亲,但您与刘伯伯一直拿我当亲身女儿对待。今天是母亲节,我依然记得您这位妈妈。人生中能够有这样两位母亲,我活着也是一种荣幸。
当你们为我操劳时,一

大家都好努力的找啊。。。。。
回复 春夏秋冬 2011-7-15 03:27
有微博的。。。请加入观戏楼。。。。。。。。
http://q.weibo.com/701199

申请的原因请填上中文网的名字。。。

方便私下联系什么的。。。中文网没有私信功能。。不太方便。。

现在在线可以通过。。。。。
回复 春夏秋冬 2011-7-15 03:26
To: yyu8561 你曾经说:
签名 最近少来 不知晚了米
请去kittyzfong的博客里面签名。。比较好统计。。
谢谢。。。
回复 女猫晒晒 2011-7-15 03:23
To: 海明律师的镜像博客 你曾经说:
我给你的桑兰博客里面有没有????
桑兰官方博客,文章“妈妈,过节了,你好吗?”(2007-05-13 22:37:39),节选:“ 而在这里我也不能忘记谢阿姨,从受伤以来对我的照顾、对我的呵护。自从我在美国重生,你们为我操劳,为我重生而搞了“新”的生日派对,我那时候就已经被感动。虽然,您不是我的亲生母亲,但您与刘伯伯一直拿我当亲身女儿对待。今天是母亲节,我依然记得您这位妈妈。人生中能够有这样两位母亲,我活着也是一种荣幸。
当你们为我操劳时,一些不良舆论并没有把你们对我的爱抹杀,你们依然爱着我、呵护着我,为我的成长而烦恼。这么多年来,没有你们的支持与鼓励,我的生活不知道会是什么样子。今天的桑兰努力的学习着、工作着。虽然很多人认为我是国家的“宠儿”是幸运的,但我知道我与众多受伤运动员一样,享受着国家的“平等”待遇,虽然从金钱的角度,它不能完全解决我的生活问题,但这对我来说已经足够,有你们对我的信任与关爱就已经足够。有这些力量,我相信我有能力让自己开心的活着,给更多人带来快乐。
两位母亲,改变了我的人生,你们用自己的爱把我唤醒,是你们给了我力量,就在今天,我祝福你们两个人,母亲节快乐。桑兰把这9年来最美的微笑送给你们,祝福你们永远年轻。
当你们看到这篇博时,我希望你们微笑,你们的女儿长大了!


桑兰博客原文链接:http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_47420b930100099o.html
回复 yyu8561 2011-7-15 03:20
支持 签名
回复 yyu8561 2011-7-15 03:19
签名 最近少来 不知晚了米
回复 春夏秋冬 2011-7-15 03:02
实名名单应该还没有完全更新。。。。
回复 pollyzixin 2011-7-15 02:34
而在这里我也不能忘记谢阿姨,从受伤以来对我的照顾、对我的呵护。自从我在美国重生,你们为我操劳,为我重生而搞了“新”的生日派对,我那时候就已经被感动。虽然,您不是我的亲生母亲,但您与刘伯伯一直拿我当亲身女儿对待。今天是母亲节,我依然记得您这位妈妈。人生中能够有这样两位母亲,我活着也是一种荣幸。
当你们为我操劳时,一些不良舆论并没有把你们对我的爱抹杀,你们依然爱着我、呵护着我,为我的成长而烦恼。这么多年来,没有你们的支持与鼓励,我的生活不知道会是什么样子。今天的桑兰努力的学习着、工作着。虽然很多人认为我是国家的“宠儿”是幸运的,但我知道我与众多受伤运动员一样,享受着国家的“平等”待遇,虽然从金钱的角度,它不能完全解决我的生活问题,但这对我来说已经足够,有你们对我的信任与关爱就已经足够。有这些力量,我相信我有能力让自己开心的活着,给更多人带来快乐。
两位母亲,改变了我的人生,你们用自己的爱把我唤醒,是你们给了我力量,就在今天,我祝福你们两个人,母亲节快乐。桑兰把这9年来最美的微笑送给你们,祝福你们永远年轻。
回复 pollyzixin 2011-7-15 02:33
To: 艾艾 你曾经说:
筒子们,桑兰好像常常赞美刘谢夫妇是再生父母,没有他们就没有她的重生,这样的话。哪里能找到她的原话?能否帮忙找找?谢谢!
艾艾找到了http://hi.baidu.com/rongrong08/blog/item/7c9eb1545033545ad0090659.html
回复 夏天的驴 2011-7-15 02:24
 杨澜:你看到,现在无论是在中国还是在美国,你都受到了很多的关注,很多人都关心你。但是实际上,你过去对于社会的了解是挺有限的,对吧?你大部分都以一种半封闭的状态在体操队里进行训练。你现在开始一下面对了这个社会,你觉得这个社会温暖吗?桑兰:温暖,那么多人关心我、支持我、爱护我。尤其现在阿姨、刘伯伯和两个哥哥,还有我妈妈,他们都对我那么好。

  杨澜:阿姨对你怎么好?给我举个例子。桑兰:阿姨那天抱乐我三次,她眼睛都爆了。

  杨澜:眼睛都爆了是怎么回事?桑兰:爆血管了,血都出来了。

  杨澜:就是她用力气的时候,眼睛里血管都爆了,是吗?桑兰:因为我有八十多磅,快九十磅了,阿姨才一百磅,我跟阿姨体重那么接近,阿姨还抱我,还连着抱了三次,眼睛都爆了,然后一个礼拜才好,现在还有一点不太好。所以阿姨不能使劲,她一使劲一抱就……刘伯伯他们也经常这样抱我,抱我很辛苦,因为我腿老是抽筋。我妈妈也是经常帮我好多,睡觉又抱我翻身,当时不会的时候还有哥哥他们。

  杨澜:你现在开始要写日记,是不是?要先自己练着写作文是吗?桑兰:在电脑里。

  杨澜:日记能有公开的部分吗?桑兰:有。

  杨澜:给我来看看好吗?桑兰:在这儿。

  杨澜:这是你在一九九九年一月三日写的一篇日记,是吧?桑兰:我念给你听。

  杨澜:好。桑兰:今天是我圣诞新年假期的最后一天。早上起床后,发现天气雾蒙蒙的一片,下着大雨,赵主任今天业准备回北京了。在平安夜的夜晚,阿姨和刘伯伯为我选了一套服装和一双皮靴,那套服装和皮靴非常地合适,尤其是那双皮靴,因为我的脚经常抽筋,搞很长时间才能下去,穿上这双鞋就老实多了。森哥送我一件红白色的毛衣,沐哥送我一双小猪绒鞋。姐姐、姐夫送我一条毛毯,大哥哥送我一块手表,大姐姐送我一队头饰。

  杨澜:你得了那么多好东西。桑兰:圣诞夜、平安夜的这些礼物我都特别喜欢,也过了一个很快乐的新年。

  杨澜:当然有很多的名人都来探访过你,但是我想一些普通人可能能够给予你更加切实的帮助,是不是这样?能不能给我们举个例子呢?桑兰:就是给我作治疗的PT治疗师,她对我非常好。

  杨澜:她叫什么?桑兰:斯蒂芬妮。比如说我有时候自己转身就感觉这个好难,我做不到,她就会说:“你做得到,你一定做得到。”她还会说:“你看,你原来老说你做不到的,现在已经做到了,你看你有进步。 ”有时候我说我的床很软,我老滑,自己弄不过去,她就说:“那我可以来你家,来教你、帮助你。”而且就抽出她平时的时间来帮助我。

  杨澜:非常好心。我知道你的歌唱得很好,能不能在这儿给我们唱支歌表达你的心愿呢?桑兰:可以。(歌词)看时光飞逝,我回首从前,曾经是莽撞少年,曾经度日如年。我是如此平凡,又是如此幸运,我要说声 “谢谢你”,在我生命中的每一天。

  杨澜(对观众):在豆蔻年华遇到这样意外的事故,对于桑兰来说,当然是一件不幸的事情,但是不幸中的大幸是她得到了这么多人的关心和爱护。她用歌声向每一位帮助过她的人表达自己的一份感谢之情。但是实际上我们每一个人又何尝不感谢她呢?因为她的天真和乐观也感染了我们,让我们有更的多勇气去面对生活中或大或小的困难。在这里,让我们衷心地祝桑兰新年快乐,也祝她走出一条自己的道路。

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回复 夏天的驴 2011-7-15 02:17
To: 海明律师的镜像博客 你曾经说:
我给你的桑兰博客里面有没有????
桑兰博客《缘分天注定》http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_47420b93010003f1.html

“一段奇妙的缘分,带我们到同一个地方,这段奇妙的缘分,牵动我们心中的力量……”哼起这首四年前和谢晓虹阿姨一起录制的《缘分》,心里还是有一种很奇妙的感觉。如果说98年的受伤是我命运的转折点,谢阿姨就是在转折点上,像母亲在背后扶持蹒跚学步的孩子一样,帮我一起紧紧抓住命运的舵的人。和谢阿姨之间亲如母女的感情,正如歌词中所唱到的,确确实实是“缘分天注定”。

第一次见到谢晓虹阿姨,是在参加友好运动会之前的一次运动员聚会上。她作为体操协会副主席叶出席了这次聚会。当领导把谢阿姨隆重介绍出场,并且在台上讲话时,我们这些小孩子在底下好奇而崇拜地“啧啧”赞叹。我非常清楚地记得,她当时穿着一件深蓝色带白色条纹的套衫,头发还焗油了,略带栗棕色,着装非常得体又很有气质。她那天还跳了舞。又有能力又漂亮又有地位,还那么多才多艺,谢阿姨在当时的我们眼里——不仅是我们这些女队员,还包括男队员、甚至教练员,都是那么完美的一个女人,甚至完美得高不可攀。我在心里还偷偷地想,多么希望自己也能成为这样一个成功的女人。第一次见面的时候,完全没有预料到以后会和心目中的“完美女人”有这样深的交往,但不知为什么,谢阿姨的印象十分清晰而深刻地留在我脑海里。

没多久我们就去纽约参加友好运动会。这是我第四次去美国,但却是第一次去纽约。领导说,有一位美国华人要来慰问慰问我们,给我们带点吃的。我们当时还很好奇,会是谁呢?我以前去美国都没碰到过。一见面,啊,原来是谢阿姨!因为她就住在纽约,而且一直都很关心中国体操事业,特地拿了很多樱桃和方便面等来给我们打气。我们体操队的小姑娘一般清一色的马尾辫,那次刚好我和孟菲、奎媛媛三个人剪了短发。谢阿姨来看我们时,我坐在外边,结果她走的时候,她指着我笑着说,“小姑娘剪短头发啦。”又兴奋又奇怪就是我当时的心情写照了。我觉得自己个儿小在队里一直都挺不起眼的,但谢阿姨居然记得我,认出我剪了短发!——当时孟菲也在,她也是刚剪短发,谢阿姨怎么没说她,就指着我说了呢?

冥冥之中似乎是有一股力量让我们走到一起。受伤后,我醒过来,看到在我身边忙进忙出的又是她!原来体操队领导要回国了,委托她来照顾我。这次她还全家出动,不但自己亲自给我做饭做菜,还把两个儿子都叫过来陪我。有一次我要就要进手术室,她来晚了,急匆匆地把一串佛珠塞到我手里,后来的手术过程中我就一直握着这串佛珠。后来出院住在她家更是受到了谢阿姨无微不至的照顾。在她过生日的时候,我做了一张卡片。当时我的手还很不方便,但我坚持自己做生日卡片,还在上面用五颜六色的水笔画画写字。谢阿姨收到的时候很感动,但她和我都不是那种把感动放在嘴边的——后来一次中央电视台采访她,她还把卡片拿出来给大家看,这张小小的卡片被保存得特别好。

我是一个特别现实的人,以前可以说是“非常”不相信缘份。总觉得缘份这东西太虚无渺茫了。直到认识了谢阿姨,这一路走来,从一个高不可攀的完美偶像到身边像亲人一般感情深厚的长辈,我才知道何谓“有缘”,何谓“缘份天注定”。母亲节快要到了,我也想借此机会,向曾经给与我母亲般关心爱护的谢晓虹阿姨真挚地说声谢谢。

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