世界性健康日

World Sexual Health Day

今天（9月4日），是“世界性健康日”(World Sexual Health Day，WSHD)。WSH由世界性健康学会（WAS）订定，世界卫生组织(WHO)也支持推广性健康！

世界性健康日是推进WAS使命和创造一个人人享有最佳性健康的世界的核心和重要庆祝活动。

同意是任何赋权性体验的基石。这是关于珍惜每个人在亲密生活中的自主权和决定，超越种族、身体能力、性别或性取向。

同意就是许可。未经允许，任何人都不能触摸他人的身体。任何性行为都必须得到所有伴侣的同意。

任何性行为之前以及许多非性行为都需要征得同意。您需要同意以下事项：

• 接吻
• 拥抱
• 分享食物
• 触摸身体任何部位
• 暴露你的生殖器
• 拍摄或分享性照片或视频

记住同意的不同涵义部分的一个有趣的方法是缩写词FRIES。

• 自由和自愿：如果有压力、操纵或毒品或酒精的影响，则不属于同意。
• 可逆：您可以随时改变对性的看法并取消同意。即使它是你的长期伴侣，即使你已经同意了，即使你以前做过，或者即使你正在进行性行为。
• 我告知：只有当您了解完整的故事时，您才能同意某件事。例如，如果有人说他们会使用安全套，但后来没有这样做，则表示没有完全同意。
• 热情：性是做你想做的事，而不是你必须做的事！热情可能意味着“好吧”或“我猜”与“绝对”或“是的！”之间的区别
• 具体：您必须具体说明您请求同意的内容。例如，同意接吻并不意味着某人同意插入式性行为。同意去某人的公寓闲逛并不意味着同意发生性行为——即使是凌晨 3:00。

无论是1还是101，所有人都应该拥有身体自主权。开始与幼儿谈论同意并始终牢记在心。同意在任何年龄段都很重要。

World Sexual Health Day is central to and an important celebration of advancing the mission of WAS and creating a world where sexual health is optimized for all.

Consent is the cornerstone of any empowering sexual experience. It’s about cherishing everyone’s autonomy and decisions in their intimate lives beyond race, bodily ability, gender or sexual orientation.

Consent is permission. No one can touch another person’s body without permission. All partners must give consent for any sexual activity.

Consent is required before any sexual activity and in many non-sexual scenarios as well. You need consent for things like:

• Kissing
• Hugging
• Sharing food
• Touching any body part
• Exposing your genitals
• Taking or sharing sexual photos or videos

A fun way to remember the different parts of consent is the acronym, FRIES.

• Freely and Willingly: It isn’t consent if there is pressure, manipulation, or influence of drugs or alcohol.
• Reversible: You can change your mind about sex at any time and remove consent. Even if it is your long-term partner, even if you already agreed, even if you’ve done it before, or even if you’re in the middle of sex.
• Informed: You can only consent to something if you have the full story. For example, if someone says they’ll use a condom and then they don’t, there isn’t full consent.
• Enthusiastic: Sex is about doing things that you want to do, not things you have to do! Enthusiastic can mean the difference between an ‘okay’ or ‘I guess’ vs a ‘absolutely’ or ‘hell yes!’
• Specific: You must be specific about what you’re asking consent for. For example, saying yes to kissing does not mean someone has consented to penetrative sex. Agreeing to hang out at someone’s apartment doesn’t mean agreeing sex—even if it’s 3:00 am.

Whether they’re 1 or 101, all people deserve bodily autonomy. Start talking about consent with young children and always keep it in mind. Consent is important at any age.