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So I went to a little bar/club type of thing last Friday night for my friend's bday party. I feel so old nowadays, I feel like going to the bar/club will probably take me days to recover lol (aching back/legs, and hangovers from like one beer). As I was sitting in my little corner like a little loser playing on my iphone while watching my friends partying and dancing away, this handsome/tall/cute white guy approached me. We seriously hit it off, and he made my night more interesting than how it would have turned out otherwise. We chatted (screamed into each others' ears) right at the bar while he bought me drinks. He is a 27yr. old dentist out in California...we basically just talked about random stuff like how it's like being a dentist and being an accountant (me). I was then interrupted by my sister and some girlfriends that pulled me away thinking that I was swept away by a creeper. We exchanged phone numbers and he texts me every now and then. If I tell my friends about this guy though, I'm sure they will be like helllllll no to meeting guys at the bar. Well...I don't even know if I'm ever going to see him again anyways (or should I? ha...)
Well, the point of my story is....I didn't know I could be into white guys! I had many crushes on white guys since elementary school all the way through high school, but during college that notion totally went away. He is pretty cute from what I can remember (not sure what I will think if I see him again under daylight) and seemed like a pretty genuine person. Too bad he lives all the way out in California, otherwise I might seriously consider dating him. I mean...who doesn't wanna marry a cute/young dentist ($$$$$). Don't get me wrong, I am no gold digger... So I am having this vision lately how my parents/family/friends will react if I really start dating a white guy, I would be pretty afraid of the cultural/language barrier. I want to find someone that my parents will like and that can actually talk to them and communicate with them. On the other hand, my parents also need to understand that Chinese guys are just so freaking !$^@#%_!_+!%$^) weird sometimes. Being a 1.5 generation Chinese-American with pretty Americanized mindset yet traditional Chinese values, I just find it really hard to find someone that is like me , someone that I can actually talk to and get along with happily and relate to. I always thought that realistically Asian/Chinese guys are more reliable and always better for us Asian/Chinese girls, but sometimes there's just something weird and creepy about Chinese guys. Sometimes I wonder if us Asian girls should give white guys a try? Plus the interracial marriage will produce some cuteeeeeee babies =)
To: tinababy 你曾经说:http://www.personalitypage.com/ENTJ.html
What‘s ENTJ?
To: mmarkmail 你曾经说:What‘s ENTJ?
heh...
You just need to find the right guy. ENTJ maybe...
To: a116189 你曾经说:Ha...I just don‘t feel like I have all the youth to waste anymore. I want to be in a relationship and be able to picture the future with the person. Dating around can be fun (not sure “fun“ is the right word), but sometimes it just wears you out and just makes you lose confidence in men! haha....I‘m sure as a fellow girl you know what I mean. I totally agree with you on the American vs. Asian comparison. Asian people really do suck at expressing feelings. For god‘s sake...I myself had never even say “I love you“ or give hugs to my parents =( If I do ever end up being with a white dude...I will definitely make him learn/talk/breathe in Chinese! hahahaha. Chance is very slim, but I guess we will see what life brings us =D
hahahaha...you are so adorable! You are still young, it doesn‘t hurt to date it out and see how it goes. I dated white/Jewish guys in the past, relationship wise it was very well. One big difference b/t caucasion and Asian guys are many times, Americans don‘t take things as offensive/serious as some Asians. Let‘s say in a quarrel, and white guys sometimes tend to be apologgetic first and then sit
To: divinebaboon 你曾经说:LOL i knew you‘d be the first to comment. but no comment?! geez =P
lol no comment